Holly Bowerman has always found joy in helping others. She has a BS degree in nursing from Weber State University, has spent most of her career in geriatric nursing, and is currently a hospice coordinator. Because she loves helping others, she feels driven to support and help those who want to improve their lives. She wants to share what she’s received through her own healing process, to help others not merely survive but to thrive! “As you heal your life,” Holly says, “You empower yourself to be the author of your own life story. This is my passion!” Holly lives in Utah with her dog Chancho.
1. Tell us about the book you are writing and what inspired you to write it.
I’m just putting the final touches on my book titled, Say What You Need to Say: Speak Your Truth. Heal Your Life. For the past two years I have been on an incredible journey of self-discovery and healing. When I first started my journey I began by writing a blog and the results of that are the contents of my book, with a few modifications. I was simply trying to make sense of what was happening in my life. I had experienced that feeling of having the rug taken out from underneath me. My life had started to feel like a series of unfortunate events and the culminating moment was in February 2011 when my mom committed suicide. Just as I was trying to heal from the loss of my mom, only a few months later, I found myself filing for a divorce. What compounded everything was the fact that when my mom died our relationship was, as I described it, “a mess.” I couldn’t comprehend how I would ever find peace with my relationship with her or how I would live with the wounds I felt deep in my heart. Over time, however, and through writing on my blog, I have found the peace I was looking for and not just with my mom, but with life. It has been an incredible journey. What’s even more surprising is that through this process I discovered that my mom is one of the greatest spiritual teachers of my life. My purpose for writing this initially was to help me, but my purpose in sharing it is to help anyone who may be struggling to pick up the shattered pieces of their life. I like to think of it as a “blueprint” for healing your life. I hope in reading it others will also find courage to go on their own journey and even share their own experiences. I strongly believe with all my heart that we all have a story and each one of them matters. I also believe that to start the healing process, we must give our lives over to God. One of the most profound truths I have discovered through this process is this: God is not waiting for you to become more “spiritual” to heal you, He is waiting for your permission.
2. If you had just one message for the world, what would it be?
Heal your life to write your own story.
3. What encouragement do you have for those who are discouraged?
As I mentioned before, I strongly believe that our lives are meant to be a success story. I say this despite many life experiences that have felt contrary to this statement. Everything we are given in life can be used for our benefit if we will allow it. No matter what the circumstances, there is always reason to have hope. Not everyone’s life path will unfold the same way, but each person’s path has a very important purpose! Don’t ever give up because you never know what is just around the corner!
4. How can people reach you to get your help?
I have a business website dedicated to my new purpose of helping people find healing. The web address is www.successstoriesllc.com. My contact information is listed there for those who are interested in meeting with me one on one. For those who just need a little pep talk or emotional boost, I have two blogs I manage with inspirational thoughts and stories that can be found on my website as well. I look forward to hearing from you!